Sexual Cannibalism and Oral Sex - What Do You Taste Like?
Sexuality, amongst humans, is so diverse and dynamical that it's
impossible to even begin to learn even the basics of what turns people
on or off; and, as the old adage goes: The more you learn the less you know.
Such is the case with human sexuality. When one begins to explore its
very basic foundations, an entire spectrum of unimagined roads are just
waiting to be travelled. Even seemingly benign roads, like The Oral Sex
Highway, allow us access to sexual tarmac that has a beginning with no
apparent end.
Here are some interesting expressions you've probably heard:
"I'm dining at the 'Y' tonight."
"I have a sexual hunger that no single man can satisfy."
"I couldn't take my eyes of off him, he was just so yummy."
"I love eating my honey."
"He was so sexy, I just wanted to devour him."
"His sexual appetite is bottomless."
"I craved her flavor and was just dying to eat her out."
"She was one dish I'd had my eyes on for a long time, I knew she'd be a tasty treat."
"I fed her every inch of my beef steak."
"He was so cute, I just wanted to gobble him up."
"I feasted on her luscious breasts."
Last but certainly not least, the lyrics from the song, "You Shook Me All Night Long" by AC/DC:
"[She] made a meal out of me and came back for more..."
There
seems to be a very clear link with sexuality and satisfying this sexual
"hunger." After all, we use our mouths, even more than our genitals for
sex. Our mouths are sexual organs we use to kiss, to lick, to taste, to
bite, to drink, to nibble, to eat, to suck, and to devour our sexual
partners, their sexual organs, and their sexual fluids.
And why
not? People love to eat good food. When we are hungry and we eat
something, we feel satisfied and we feel full. Imagine a delicious meal,
your favorite dish, and how fantastic it will taste. Eating such
delicious foods is pleasurable. It feels great to eat wonderful food.
Olfaction
(smell) has something to do with it, too. Olfaction is clearly linked
to taste. Just remember as a child what you did when you had to eat
something that you didn't want to. What did you do? You pinched off your
nose, opened your mouth, popped the offensive food in your mouth,
chewed it, and ingested it. Blocking off the smell made the food more palatable, as you couldn't "taste" it as much.
Olfaction,
not only has a lot to do with enhancing the flavor and attracting us to
foods that we like, but also plays a large part in sex. How is that not
surprising? We bathe to smell cleaner and more appealing. We apply
perfumes to scent our bodies. We brush our teeth and use mouthwash to
sweeten our breaths... Having a nice and pleasing scent is part of
sexual attraction.
But not just from these externally-applied
scents. Our bodies produce our own scents and smells to attract
partners. Pheromones are a great example of this. Personally, when I
meet a woman I am really attracted to, there's nothing more I sexually
desire than to place my head between her legs and smell her natural
perfume. Time, quite literally, stops for me as I inhale her. This
initial smell is so fantastic that it is indescribable. Then, having
been so whetted, I proceed with oral sex. Of course, au naturel is preferred, with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Some
scents are attractive to some people, some are unattractive. The list
is endless of bodily smells that turn people on and off. For example,
some men like the smell of a woman's sweaty shoe, while other men aren't
so keen on this odor.
So, we know that smell is linked with enhancing the flavor of something we eat or drink.
Just walk into the office canteen after someone has made some microwave
popcorn. First you smell it, then you can actually taste it, and, in
most cases, you wished you had a bag of it to eat for yourself!
Having
enough food to eat is one of the most basic needs people have. It's
part of our survival. It's quite simple: Without food and water we die.
This makes "hunger" deeply wired into the most primal part of our
brains. What's that saying... "Nobody wants to make love when they're
hungry." That's certainly true.
As infants, we are held to our
mother's bosom and comforted. We feel safe, protected, and warm. As the
infant sucks on his mother's nipple, he also curbs his cravings for
hunger. Imagine an infant, who is completely powerless and helpless in
the world, to feel the warmth and protection of his mother; while he is
getting his belly filled and hunger cravings satisfied at the same
time...
No wonder it feels so good to eat. It takes us back to our
first moments on this planet, moments when we were warm, safe, and
protected. With no fears, no mortgage, no unemployment, and no bills.
Along
with eating and drinking, sex is also a part of our primal brains. We
were designed to be highly sexual creatures. If we weren't we would fail
to reproduce and our race would become extinct. This is how we are
wired and it is an important aspect of our primal brains. Once our
bellies are full, we want to fulfill our sexual appetite, too.
With
oral sex we are able to feel the nourishment, warmth, and comfort of
our first meals as infants, we are able to satisfy our cravings for our
sexually-based hunger, and we are able to truly become satiated, more so
than by just food alone. Oral sex, then, is certainly that last piece
of dessert that makes everything taste better and more fulfilling (that
little reward that helps make life worth living).
Oral sex, remember, is any form of sexuality your perform with your mouth. Be it kissing, sucking, or licking.
What's even more fantastic is the use of scent and smells to further make our sexual meals even more delicious and appetizing.
It's
amazing what we take for granted in something that seems as simple as
oral sex. We just go about our oral ways, without thinking much about
the entire process, but there are a lots of things going on behind the
sexual curtain that make it all possible.
Which brings us to
cannibalism (now, there's a change of subject!). This is the act where a
member of a species eats, as food, their own species. Like a dog who
would eat another dog, or, as we used to see in the old jungle and
exploration Hollywood movies, with human beings who eat other human
beings as a food source. According to the encyclopedia, cannibalism
among humans was popular and quite widespread throughout the world up
until the 19th century.
So, if I perform oral sex on a woman
and dine on her deliciousness, drink her wine, and absorb her juices
into my own body, via my mouth, is this not a form of cannibalism? Am I
not "eating" and ingesting her? Sexual cannibalism, perhaps? After all, I
am dining on her to satisfy my sexual hunger and to further quench my
gastronomical hunger (as well as to please her, of course!).
What
if a woman swallows a man's seminal output after performing fellatio on
him? What does that make her? This fluid will be broken down by her
intestinal system and will be utilized to make new cells and tissue for
her own use.
Sexual Cannibalism, apparently, is a real event and
has been scientifically defined. It is the act of one species (usually a
female) that consumes her mate before, during, or after they have sex.
Black Widow Spiders are an example.
Of course, with natural-human
oral sex, most of us want to come back for seconds, thirds, fourths, and
so on; so we can't be classified as "real" sexual cannibals, as we
don't truly devour and actually "eat" or sexual friends. We just like
the way they taste.
Friday, October 5, 2012
Sexual Cannibalism and Oral Sex - What Do You Taste Like?
